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May 22nd
05:23 pm
At LAX leaving for Cannes  

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Beejeezbee on May 23rd, 2012 12:53 am (UTC)
You can discuss with Lanie the point she made - you can disagree with her, make an argument why you think she's "wrong" or offer a new opinion on the topic or whatever relates to her comment.

But don't you think it's ehs_wildcats job to decide when someone is generally taking it too far?

If you have a general concern, you can sent Cady a DM.

PS: If Cady wants to address this, it will be later, she's not around at the moment.
Miranda gives everyone a chancemirandagirll on May 23rd, 2012 01:02 am (UTC)
I think everyone on here probably already knows that I'm the little baby on here who takes things too seriously. So even though I know I shouldn't, it's something I need to work on.

It just bugs me when people make jokes like that about people. Especially people I really take seriously.

Yes, you're right, it's not my place to decide when someone is generally taking it too far.
butterflybee260butterflybee260 on May 23rd, 2012 01:10 am (UTC)
Honestly, I really think that whenever anyone on here does it, it REALLY does come from a place of love for Zac. It's not like it's some random person hating on him, we all care very much, but that doesn't mean we won't dislike something he does or whatever. But if you can remember that we're all here because we respect and like him, it might make it easier for you. Sometimes I really disagree with people on here, and dislike how they express things, but I always know that they care a lot about Zac and we're all bonded by that and it helps lay a groundwork of respect. No one here is his enemy, we all love him and want the best for him, but we're going to tease him or make fun of him occasionally, but it is done in love.

And if anyone does go too far, Cady is really great about shutting it down, she's done an awesome job of creating a safe space here. And Jeezbee is also great at enforcing it.

Edited at 2012-05-23 01:16 am (UTC)
Miranda gives everyone a chancemirandagirll on May 23rd, 2012 01:17 am (UTC)
If I had known that before, then I probably wouldn't be like how I am.

I'm sorry for causing trouble.
butterflybee260butterflybee260 on May 23rd, 2012 01:25 am (UTC)

It's okay, honestly. :) I appreciate your defensiveness, it's kinda endearing. Like Cady said in an earlier post, this place is sort of like a family. We all fight sometimes but we really do love each other and want you to feel included and happy here. It might take time to adjust a little, but that's perfectly okay!
The Writers Denmusewriter on May 23rd, 2012 01:08 am (UTC)
95% of what I say here and elsewhere online is meant to be a joke, as was my reply to that comment. As Mel pointed out, I am a fan of Zac's and if my sense of humor doesnt always show that, I'm sorry. </p>

I still stand by my comment that the facial hair is not appropriate for Cannes, arguably one of the, if not the most prestigious film festival.

Cady I apologize if you thought my comment was out of line.

hunny miss (aka lets fead him to the gators)ehs_wildcats on May 23rd, 2012 03:07 am (UTC)
nah, he's playing the field, that's pretty well-established and i ain't mad, lol. (though p.s. for anyone wondering, afaik the lily thing is real but ~casual~)

but personally i don't think he'd take his dad and bro if he really wanted to live it up.

i am glad he took his family. this is a pretty cool thing and will be nice to share it with them the first time.
butterflybee260butterflybee260 on May 23rd, 2012 03:15 am (UTC)

Casual is how it vibes to me, I think that's good. She seems like a nice girl but he's prolly not wanting to jump into something too serious while he's trying so hard to focus on his career, which is good.
abigail80831abigail80831 on May 23rd, 2012 04:09 am (UTC)
Casual was the vibe I got from them from day one tbh. But good for him!

Edited at 2012-05-23 04:19 am (UTC)
countessm3countessm3 on May 23rd, 2012 10:42 am (UTC)
"Special friends" - yep, moi aussi. (-;